Reflections on the Ukilái Annual Gathering of Men in Scotland (2018)

Related Events

Learn more about Retreat and Renewal for Women, Men and Young Adults

Learn more about Ukilái: An Annual Gathering of Men

In view of Schiehallion, a grand mountain in central Scotland that was referred to a couple of times as the “center of everything” for the area, I gathered as part of a group of ten seeking to calibrate our positions as men in our families and communities at Ukilái. With guidance from head chef David Wiley, a stew was prepared from cuts of fine men and spiced with stories, laughter, pain and sweat, then cooked by Fire.

Transformed, we returned a little more tender, palatable, more able to feed the world with our gifts.  For me, this time, it wasn’t so much about being a man, but about being more human.

— Brian Collins
Glen Rock, Pennsylvania, USA
May 8, 2018